# Amalan Harian - 6 # Cara Kembali Bersama Dengan Bekas Kekasih

1. BERHENTI ‘MENGEJAR’ SI DIA. Jika anda benar-benar inginkan dia kembali, inilah cara yang terbaik. Jika anda fikirkan dengan cara menelefon si dia setiap hari memujuk rayu untuk kembali bersama dengan, meninggalkan sms atau e-mail yang penuh dengan pengharapan supaya dia kembali bersama anda akan membuatkan dia kembali, anda silap! Malahan ini akan membuatkan dia semakin benci dengan anda.

2. BERHENTI JADI STALKER – Berhentilah daripada terus mengintip si dia… Cuba anda bayangkan, jika anda berada pada situasi dia, apa yang akan anda fikir tentang ex anda yang sering mengintip anda? Sudah tentu anda akan rasa rimas dan fikir dia seorang yang gila dan berbahaya!

3. ELAKKAN KEMURUNGAN – Jika anda rasa dengan cara menyeksa diri sendiri seolah-olah tiada lagi makna untuk hidup, tidak mahu bersosial, duduk terperap saja dirumah dan sering menangis mampu membuatkan si dia berasa simpati dan serba salah, anda silap. Dia juga mempunyai hidup dia sendiri dan jika dia ingin kembali dengan anda semata-mata untuk menjaga hati anda, adakah itu dinamakan cinta? Gunakan cara yang lebih baik untuk kembali bersama.

Jadi, apa yang harus anda lakukan? Jika anda benar-benar ingin kembali bersama, cuba amalkan 4 perkara dibawah, insyaallah dia akan kembali untuk anda.

1. PERBAIKI DIRI ANDA- Cuba fikirkan kembali kenapa hubungan anda terputus. Mungkin kerana perangai anda sendiri yang tidak menghargai dia dengan baik. Jadi, belajarlah untuk menjadi seseorang yang lebih baik. Belajar menjadi seseorang yang mampu menghargai diri seseorang. Berhenti menyalahkan diri dia kerana anda kena faham, anda tidak boleh mengubah seseorang anda tetapi anda boleh mengubah diri anda dan apabila anda berubah, seseorang itu juga akan berubah.

2. KEKAL BERINTERAKSI – Berpisah bukan bermakna tidak boleh bertegur sapa. Anggaplah dia sebagai kawan walaupun hakikatnya anda rindukan saat-saat bersama. Gunakan sms, facebook dan sebagai platform untuk kekal berhubung. Elakkan berbual tentang hubungan yang lepas. Siapa tahu, si dia akan teringat kembali saat manis bersama dan akan kembali terima anda.

3. BUAT PERUBAHAN – Jika sebelum ini anda tidak mementingkan penampilan, mulalah jaga penampilan anda. Tunjukkan kepada si dia yang anda mampu menjadi lebih baik selepas anda berpisah. Mungkin ada orang lain yang akan jatuh hati terhadap penampilan anda.

4. BIARKAN DIA YANG MENGEJAR ANDA – Jika anda yang meminta perpisahan, andalah yang perlu memberitahu kepada dia bahawa anda inginkan kembali perhubungan anda. Tetapi jika si dia yang meninggalkan anda, biarkan dia yang meminta untuk kembali bersama. Dengan cara itu, dia akan lebih menghargai anda setelah kembali bersama.

Echa's Injury.....

Because of her clumsiness this is what happen too my daughter Echa.... She was slipped in the bathroom.. She came out from the bathroom and there is a BLOOD at her foot... She started to cry... scared to be scold.... wanted to go to the Hospital but Echa keep on crying....

Pity Echa so much... nothing much we can do... just put some Minyak Khusaini at her leg...hope there will be no Bad injury....

ACID RAIN.....!!!!

A Nuclear power plant in Fukumi , Japan exploded at 4.30a.m today. If it rains tomorrow or later, PLEASE DON’T go out outside.


If you have to, be sure that you have rain protector. It is ACID RAIN.

Don’t let it touch your body. You may hurt/burn your skin ,lose your hair or worst case is cancer. And remind everyone you know.

Japan government confirms radiation leak at Fukushima nuclear plants . Asian Countries, should take necessary precautions. Remain indoor first 24 hours after rain.

Close doors and windows. Swab neck skin with butadiene where thyroid area is, radiation hits thyroid first. Take extra precaution , radiation may hit phil at starting 4pm 2day.

Family Cinema....

Nothing much to do for our weekends... for us we  fulfill our time by watching movies....

Our first movie.....

Synopsis : "Khurafat" begins with Johan (Syamsul Yusof), a young man working as an assistant in a govenment hospital and married  with Aishah (Liyna Jasmay). The newlyweds are leading peaceful life when suddenly they find themselves besieged by a weird creature.The presence of a mysterious old woman, together with the sudden emergence of Johan's ex-girlfriend Anna (Sabrina Ali) add to the mystery. Anna is always disturbing Johan even though she knows Johan is now with Aishah.
Star : 4 Stars
Comment: It is dark... lots of night scene and  full of suspense... scary... some lesson in the story...

Second Movie

Synopsis : "Damping Malam" is about a couple - Wadi (Ahmad Idham) and Ku Khalira (Amy Mastura) who have been married for 14 years and are blessed with a beautiful daughter - Nuraiza (Erynne Erynna). They are a liberal, modern family and Nuraiza is a bright student at school. The parents place more importance to worldly matters, so she isn't brought up with much religious emphasis, despite also being raised by her mysterious aunt, Umi Siah (Azizah Mahzan). One day, Nuraiza leaves home to further her studies and soon finds herself powerless to protect against dark powers due to her lack of religious knowledge.
Star: 2 Star
Comment: Good info and lessons... sometimes we should believe our husband....


Third Movie

Synopsis : Rama is a supervisor who is looking for a driver at the last minute to deliver out of town. He manages to get Ah Meng and Bakri to do the task with additional overtime and bonus. The only catch is that they have to deliver a Chinese-style large wooden coffin on time. For the extra money, the two men take on the job and travel in the van through the quiet expressway. During the journey, the delivery van's radio player gets busted. To kill time, both men begin to tell ghost stories which they declare as genuine. Bakri starts off the ghost stories from his kampung that involves a young man and a banana tree spirit.
Star : 4 Star
Comments : Hilarious and funny.....


Fourth Movie

Synopsis : Haq is a superpowered human, something that was passed down to him from his father... shown in the flashback as telekinesis... Bad (a Malay name and not the english word) is like a brother to Haq, they grew up together but I think Bad wasn't blessed with the power that Haq has and he was jealous. His spitefulness grew exponentially when his father died and he blamed Haq's father. Bad's mother also shows affection for Haq, which drove a wedge between them. Cut to a few years later, when both of them had grown up. Bad has acquired some sort of power and using it for his own evil schemes. One of the schemes is revenge against Haq and his father.
Star : 2 Stars
Comments : Anyway, the movie was not all bad though... it's definitely one of those 'gray' movies... not black nor white, not good nor bad... the fight scenes were not bad, some were choreographed quite nicely actually...

ACCEPTANCE......

Some people confuse acceptance with apathy,

but there's all the difference in the world. 

Apathy fails to distinguish between what can and what cannot be helped; 

Acceptance makes that distinction. 

Apathy paralyzes the will-to-action; 

Acceptance frees it by relieving it of impossible burdens

Giving More.....

Once someone asked me, 'Why do I have to give more. Isn't it just enough?'. 
Then I answered, 'Giving more is better than just enough. NOTHING is for someone who doesn't stands a single chance. 
Who has give up. 
JUST ENOUGH is for someone who is too lazy to have more or achieve something. 
Someone who hates to put an effort in anything.
GIVING MORE is for someone who always try hard. This group of people is the people who you adore in your life

Life Of Kids....

Life of kids is a life without a problem, pressure or tension... not even a hectic' in their diary.... Their life full of happiness....

With Kakak Echa...Finish plucking Koko's

With Rafiqi.... after chasing cow...

With Ammar...It is swimming time....

How fun it is to be a kids.... no problem and nothing to think.... but time flies....